Today I met some random person in a bus.Some how we started talking with each other.And he was so much into talking that he started sharing his personal things.He told me about his problem which I am sharing with you.I still do not know why he told me.Here we go:-
He had a dream a year ago that he had to achieve some particular goal and that dream was so intense that he was convinced that he will achieve the same.But actually he knew he can not because it was not going to possible in any case or you can say just 1-2 % chance.So he started working on it.He knew that the path, on which he was walking on, had many risks.At many points ,he thought to quit because he realised that he cannot reached to his destination but his dream never let him to do so.The path was like in the form of ladder and as he stepped upward ,he could not come down. He was going upward and upward with no chance of coming in downward direction.Now he is at the point where he has realised that he cannot achieve his goal beacuse its not practically possible.but situation is like he cannot go back also because there is no ladder in backward direction and to move forward he need some steps which is not available.So either he has to allow himself to fall down from the ladder which can cause damage to himself or he should stay there and wait for some steps(which is not possible).
He asked me the solution of the same.I told him to fall down but he wanted to stay there only because his dream is not allowing him to do so.I asked him about his goal but he was just smiling.And then he had to deboard the bus.
I wonder what can be the solution of the same!!!
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well..if he is dat dedicated towards achieving d goal,then he should be patient as well..he shud definitely wait for d nxt indication or d nxt signal.
ReplyDeleteyup completely agree with sonam..
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ReplyDeletebut staying at that point is killing him day by day..... and also that is affecting other lives also...
ReplyDeletetotally agree with sonam,
ReplyDeletelet the time decide... he needs to b more patient n the next step he is looking for will surely appear. though the new step might take him to a new destination (equally good) in extreme case bt that step will surely come.
falling down is no option.... kabhi kisi aur ko mat diyo ye advice.. :P
Sometimes... not making a random move, but waiting for the right moment, can actually be the best possible move.
ReplyDeletesometimes its bttr to quit (specially when it is also affecting other lives...so just for the sake of him/her) rather than waiting for steps(which is nt possbl as in his case)... falling down may gv u another chance to live and start new things... though not a surety...but staying at that point can kill you from inside.
ReplyDeletewel he 4got dat he hz achievd dat uch due 2 his endurance n perseverence..n he is nt far away 4rm d final dest...
ReplyDeletewell as it says.. most of the time we quit when we are closest to our target.
ReplyDeleteNot seeing the ladder further doesn't mean that now its end and there is no path... but can mean that he has reached his goal.. only has to interpret it correctly. Success has many forms..
and his story of ladder is good.. u should have told him that ladder has reached into clouds... that is why he is not able to see further... just keep moving or keep looking... :)
well, is story se yehi lag rha hai ki that guy loves a girl ( his destination ), but he can't have her. And he does not want to fall down the ladder i.e. lose her as a friend.
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